She should of just left Kirsten alone and went on with other things, Kirsten wouldnt of gave her any thought otherwise, but she was just obsessed with Kirsten and Kirsten liking her, that was the main focus in her life, and it took Kirstens unfortunately. The caller identified herself as a Bobbie, and told Berit she knew Kirsten was away until the weekend, but asked if she would be able to attend an initiation dinner for new Bobbies that Saturday night. I just think Bernadette had underlying issues and pressure on her to get to the top, but that was no right for murder. Knowing that the Protti family is no longer poor, I hope they didnt benefit financially from this film! We werent in the same grade I was one year ahead of her she acted as if she was better. For what? So classy and dead on. Being disgusted with a murderer and defending a murder victim? She was friendly and outgoing. A few more saying they didnt fit in and refuses to come to Reunions, I say you dont want to come then dont. Youre not now Bullying a dead girl, makes you worse than her, you will be the one to Answer for it, not her, she already has, Bernadette sure isnt any Angel shes a Cold Blooded Killer, dont care what her reasons are, she is the Bully, and Kirsten is the Victim. I mean she stabbed another girl to death because she was afraid to get made fun of at school or be outed or whatever. Believe me it was a 6 month witch hunt. Or someone who stares at you constantly, you got a problem doing that. She just got irritated cause Bernadette lied to her and lured her out under false Circumstances, Id be annoyed and Angry to. Later, Protti stated in her testimony that she had planned to bring Costas to the party so that the two of them might become friends, but she changed her mind after learning that there would be no meal supplied for the new Bobbies. [Case in point:]. She couldnt of been or she never would of killed, and watch the town accuse 2 Innocent girls and harrass,them over it. She didnt like Nancy and a few others. Heres how to party like its 1969, See some slimming and sexy 1960s stretch pants, Print Color Fun: Free coloring pages & more fun for kids, Quotes Quotes Quotes: 1000s of clever & inspiring quotations, FindersFree.com: Find answers to lifes little questions. You cant try a 15yr old as an adult now. Kirsten was angry for her lying to get her out under false pretenses, and she knew something was off. How was the judge stupid when first of all the evidence didnt show or prove 1st degree murder then secondly that was the law at the time? Real class comes from decent human beings who have respect for others, and treating others the way that they want to be treated. I know this because I was there in the same class of Kirsten and Bernadette. To the point that she knew she could . Youre the same one I bet. The girls quarreled and Costas fled to the home of Alex and Mary Jane Arnold, telling them that her friend had gone "weird. Look inwards and think with consideration before you speak. Guys just didnt really notice her. That girl on Deadly Women who portrayed Kirsten was almost perfect, watch Landscape Suicide and they show a girl portraying Kirsten talking on the phone and laughing listening to Music, that is the closest to Kirsten Costas that can be described the best. Dont let that Sweet Melancholy fool anyone, she was not that unless you were in the group. Being disgusted with the the murderers nonchalant behaviour after her brutal crime? Here are some less-known facts about the show and actual crime. Those girls had a clique. I read a lot of these Articles,and her BFF said the exact same thing on one interview. There was no jury in the trial. She wont be going back to Orinda its highly likely she wont. Not when she was bullied and pushed to her limit!! Knowing you though youll never have the character or the balls to do this and that was the reason you arent in whatever popular grip you killed to try to get into. She was raring to go, ready to start to live her life when it was snuffed out., Everything about her had flair. Home Faculty and Staff Directory All Faculty Angela J Delvecchio. She didnt like their ways mostly. Word around town was that K was stabbed 18 times. Shut up already and get a life. The knife was her sisters for making lunch it was even in the movie that way. If Kirsten was going to out Bernadette, she would of told Alex Arnold all about her, and the Conversation. I believe they wouldnt allow you to read if you were in a group with them, thats there Nature towards people who they feel superior to. The release of Protti was met with vehement opposition from Costass parents. Ok, I agree with you that Kirsten was better-looking, but you realize that Bernadette was part Italian, right? She called Kirsten names. What? After she married, her name changed again to Jeanette Tomanka and she and her husband, as well as their child, moved to Oregon. Dee I dont agree with you, so Kirsten and them had you on a project assignment and they didnt include you in the circle, you ever thought maybe you gave signals you dont belong, or why didnt you ask them to allow you, people cant read minds. We all have moved on, and went on with our Lives since that tragic episode. The person I knew didnt hate Kirsten, she just thought she was Snooty or Misunderstood. That was all taken from her, so unfair. Executive Director @ Non-Profit Agency. Protti didnt get a short sentence because she claimed to have been picked on. Bernadette is a physchopath and a Killer, and always will be. Kirsten wasnt obligated to helping those people, sometimes it has to be done on your own! Honestly teens do deserve another chance at something eventually. She said Bernadette was kind of Snooty also. As they drove, Kirsten seemed unconcerned when Arnold saw the mustard-colored Pinto tailing them. Me! Even if her friend was bullying dont give right to take life. Angela Should Have Been Caught Sooner When Angela cleans off the knife with which she stabbed Stacy, she does so by running it under water and wiping it with a towel, leaving both her and Stacy's DNA all over it, the towel and in the drain. Bernadette is Sick. [4], On June 23, 1984, Costas was lured with a phony invitation to a dinner for the Bob-o-Links, a sorority-like group at school. Hard to comprehend how this Bernadette flew into a rage and savagely murdered her classmate. Rubbish, it was jealousy and pure rage. Interesting. So she didnt like Joanna or Nancy, she isnt Obligated to, or owe them anything. She is a happily married woman enjoying her life as a mother. If it was national news, I missed it. Bernadette shoukd of just acknowledged Kirsten was around and spoke Civil to her, without forging the friendship. [1][2], The daughter of affluent parents Arthur and Berit Costas, Kirsten Costas and her brother Peter grew up in the small suburban town of Orinda, California. Kids no one wants to be around, play alone at recess, those are the kind we avoided. Kirstens friends arent either (not one bit). Kirsten, and D and Ms Stuff were the Life of a Party. Im not saying that she should have been killed, but sometimes bad behavior has a terrible outcome which is why we all need to teach our children to respect the feelings of others. Her family was not the same. I dont think she suffers from depression, but she is wanting to isolate from the World. she threatened to tell everyone at school the next day, she didnt tell Alex Arnold ( the Man who drove her home) again it was to insane he probaly would of freaked and she didnt want to scare him with the details. Nancy I would of never considered Murder, that is just plain Sick. The girl that stole her life from her shouldve never been released from prison. And back then Bernadette was never going to admit that. Looking at the pictures, it is shocking to see that Kirsten Costas is the face of an innocent little girl. Bernadette was homely; Kirsten was pretty. Judging from your comments you clearly have sided with Bernadette, so why contradict yourself? So thats not bullying, thats rejecting you, cause she knew Bern was off beat. I know. Killed a girl because you were jealous? Also there Was another girl who went out with the football team and accused them all of raping her, not the entire team, but several players and I hear she was ran out as well and dogged by the Students. There was one that wrote in the1986 alumni that she wasnt desiring to be found cause the 4 years at Miramonte wasnt the best for her. She once told Kirsten to shut up in biology and thats why everyone thought shed done it. . Now that you know, have fun looking around! Just because the Costas had millions of dollars and Are socialites Of the upper class community Does not give their family the right to treat others like dirt. You cuss and run loose you wont be accepted. So think before you get that angry cause there is no turning back from it. You seem to have the mentality of a child. Was Kirsten and her friends a lot of fun to hang with, and did they party? I dont care if she was only 15, murder is murder and she should have been locked away for far longer. Bernadettes BFF. [1] According to Protti's later testimony, she had planned to take Costas to the party to befriend her, but Costas became angry when she was told that there was no dinner for the new "Bobbies." is it really about wealth, splendour etc? You are disturbing and evil by stating that death was too good for Kirsten, an innocent victim of a brutal murder. I liked School and I wasnt popular, but I still liked it. Growing up there for me was different, I got along with people, and didnt try so hard being popular. My kid knows better than to bully others. She didnt deserve to die. After the fight between the girls, Costas hurried away and told Mary Jane Arnold and Alex that her buddy had started acting strange. Because Costas was unable to get in touch with her parents at the foundation, Alex Arnold drove her home while keeping an eye on the Pinto that belonged to the Protti family. Community. Some claimed it was am an act of Satanism or a PCP-induced killing. Thisb isnt about Columbine, its about the Kirsten Costas case. Another DJ initials it was said she was bullied relentlessly as well. and the one who was ran out of School for getting drunk at a Party and messing with ajocks? In your dreams Bernadette was better looking! I cant believe they made a movie that was so offensive to the real victim. My kid knows better than to bully others. Teens are teens. If Kirsten was going to out Bernadette she would of told Alex Arnold all about her. You have no idea what you are talking about with Columbine. She was friendly, but kind of Arrogant as well. They werent socially accepted on account of the choices they made.. Berns BFF chose to support her( that set her apart) In Orinda if you act like a Bad A.. you wont be accepted. Society in the richest places raise their children to be obnoxious and unbearable little freaks who will at some point push a normal person to the brink,so whatever happens is something they are a part of as well as the person they have pushed. Kirsten was the real life of the Party! Kirsten fell and sprang up again. we all need to teach our children to respect the feelings of others. I thought Miramonte was a nice place, if you make good decisions myoumwill make it (popular or not). I do believe she didnt like outcasts like Nancy and Joanna there. How was Bernadette a fragile human being? I always noticed Bernadette would give Kirsten stares and mean looks at times. Kirsten in no way deserved to die. Why couldnt her sister cut up the vegetables on the counter top where its sooo much easier??? I still have nightmares of many girlfriends ignoring me, making fun of me and being just vicious. homely? Maria Lot of weirdos on this thread. If you liked this article, please share it! Maybe others didnt think so, but to many said she was. Bernadette was not a nice girl, if she was then shed never of killed Kirsten, shed left her alone and went on. Kirsten was, and classmates mostly said she was a free fun spirit with a big heart and love for life. Kirsten was Snooty as well, so were the Stacys and the other Kirstens that ran with them. You are full of it. She was nice to her friends though. With a median household income of $60,000, the areas families are not upwardly mobile living in Orinda certifies that they have already arrived. This is exactly why the Columbine shooting happened, and why these things happen in the first place. There were girls she didnt like, either she liked you or she didnt, no in between. I was there too. Like Missy Availa saying she was roughish and wild and Loose, didnt give Karen Severson and Laura Doyle any right to murder her either. She is rumored to have "two left feet". To this day I remember those girls well. If not, I doubt she worries about the past. She loved to play Nancy Drew. Girls, women at any age can be so horrible. Kirsten Ill admit she wasnt in favor with stupid acting people and had zero tolerance for them, (as did I). Kirsten was a (down to earth) girl and she had a few she didnt like, esp. But would a real student please come forward and reveal yourself.. We all have someone we dont like. When they opened the door, they saw Kirsten and, behind her, another girl, who looked about fifteen, lurking out the path.. She clearly wasnt happy with them and their old, unfashionable selves either, adding that they didnt give her, their 6th child, the attention she so desperately wanted. All of the pictures featured here are photos taken from newspapers, not the authors private collection. On the day of the event, Protti lied to Costas about having a party at her house in order to get him to leave her residence. If Bernadette isnt depressed it would be a Miracle. I was told she had no known enemies. One girl she got mad at for saying stupid stuff around her and embarrassing her. Do you really think its acceptable to lure someone out of their house under false pretences and then expect a positive reaction if your lie is discovered? Beauty and the Beast and D are still the Life of a Party at times, esp Reunions. Over, if Kirsten bullied B why didnt B use it to Strenghten her Case. Kirstens family and Berns family were both Well off, Bern lived in a Richer part. Bern was more well off than a lot of people in the Neighborhood she grew up in. If Bernadette killed Kirsten because she was bullied and put down by her, why didnt she give examples at her trial which would have strengthened her case? Completely agree with you Midwest Jimmy. To bad she did cause Im sure she would of grown out of her ways and be a positive influence in someones life today even. 5.0 Provides follow-up as needed. Im irritated. She watched 2 girls take the blame and did absolutely nothing about it. i dont want to hear poor bernadette was bullied no she had mental issues. I came across people like that in my in-laws family when I was married and it is pathetic the way older siblings are so selfish. God would want you to forgive, Kirsten would as well. She couldnt careless about Orinda to start with let alone go back there. Apparently the owner of the other blogs havent gave up, just busy. But those others today are still a lot of fun. Bernadette then drove Kirsten to an empty car-park and appears to have confessed feelings of admiration for her. How could a teenager have been that diabolical? Shame on you. Ive heard she was Bubbly and funny. She fit it fine and was considered to be popular in her own way. Kirsten wasnt a bully at all. Kirsten didnt like people who acted (Dumb) or got into trouble and cause trouble. No I would never kill someone from being bullied but I totally understand some people who do. Maybe things wouldve been different for her and she would still be here today. Until something happens. Bernadette would have seen the pain and anguish on Kirstens face, the fear and shock in Kirstens eyes, listened to Kirsten scream in agony (she was reported to have screamed) as she felt the knife rip through Kirsten skin. She didnt have time to (bully). lol Dylans mother saying We werent rich. How so? Lol the people saying bernadette was better looking and Kristen had it coming, oh boyhoping your not the ugly neighbor living on my block and lurking in my bushes. Worry about this Virus that is killing people Worldwide. Bernadette isnt coming anyway, she is not well anymore. Can you give examples of Kirsten bullying Bernadette? Dont let this Corona Virus stop you? Its sad, but when all is said and done its not worth it. That Dee if it is who I think she was always in trouble and never listened. She is a Sociopath. People who grew up in Orinda and say its snobs were mostly people who werent socially accepted growing up, and they made choices that others didnt make and cussed and talked dirty and skipped school and always in trouble, and hung out with outcasts, and they became outcasts by association. Kirsten didnt hate anyone, (as for Dee) she didnt like the way she acted thats all. Here you are, pretending you care, pretending you wanna help me, when all your really care about is being popular. Protti lured Costas from her home with a false story about a party, to which the wanna-be would give her pretty friend a ride. Who knows what was true or not. My god you women are something else. I hear she disguised herself when she comes to Orinda wears shades over her eyes, and lives behind a long lane (mom does). ?lol go guys and do some research..the real Bernadette was very beautiful,(but poor) while the real Kristen was very average (but rich)Kristen well deserved her fate,all the bullies making others life miserableno sympathy from me at all. I hear Bernadette is depressed a lot these days. Defining Feature: Klutzy, younger sister of Tony who is also an Italian mobster stereotype. Its possible they forgave her and moved on. Kirsten is forever missed. Who are you to tell the judge what to say or do at that time? Angela Delvecchio is an Italian-American character in the Backyard Sports series. A little over an hour later, an agitated Kirsten rang the bell at a strangers door. Wouldnt she have something smaller, like a paring knife? Showing ratings for: 322 Main St, Bar Harbor, ME, 04609 . She slaughtered a girl. It seemed like Bernadette needed intense psychotherapy for her issues. When no one there answered the phone, Alexander Arnold offered to drive her back to a neighbors house in Orinda. Later, she married her husband and is now officially known to the world as Jeannette Tomanka. There is no way Bernadette is better than Kirsten. Do you really think its acceptable to lure someone out of their house under false pretences and then expect a positive reaction if your lie is discovered? (Kirsten sure didnt), Saying bullies need to get what they deserve. Kirsten didnt like some of those people cause they rubbed her the wrong way and acted Stupid around her, she definately wasnt down with Stupidity. Put God first. Some girls said she was mean to people, we all have opinions, but Im sure she was smart alecky at times, what teen girl isnt, even Bernadette was I bet as well. I dont believe Kirsten was a Bully. She had plenty of friends like in the film who loved her, but she cared only about superficial things, and people. Angela Delvecchio currently lives a married life with her husband and child in Portland, Oregon. Reading, Pennsylvania, United States That pain of being relentlessly bullied stays with you your whole life and your self worth is damaged. It gave me the creeps. So I would say to any bully, we all have our weaknesses, Bernadette had jealousy issues. [5] He thought that he was witnessing a fistfight, but in fact Protti had stabbed Costas five times with a butcher knife and fled. The best result we found for your search is Angela E Delvecchio age 40s in Saint Clairsville, OH. Shes no better than you. In the spring of 1984, Kirsten had been asked to join the Bob-o-links, or Bobbies, an elite sorority-like organization of thirty to thirty-five of the best looking, most popular girls in school. "[3] When Costas could not reach her parents by telephone, Alex Arnold drove her home, noticing that the Protti family's Pinto was following them. Read the facts of the case instead of perpetuating lies that Kirsten pushed Bernadette or that she bullied Bernadette. My friend loved her and said she was one that you couldnt help but love even though she could be cocky. I hear she suffers from depression to. Unless any of these people commenting knew these girls personally and their families, they dont have a place to judge either one of these girls who lived this tragic event.

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